Tuesday, January 9, 2018

Thoughts on a Christmas morning breakfast 2017

December 25 2017

I awoke that Monday morning with the knowledge that my family, meaning the Smithville Paffords, were sleeping close by and would in a matter of minutes gather together to begin our holiday celebration. As anticipated, we were exchanging gifts and enjoying one another's company a short time later. As the celebration progressed, Beth and I began preparations for Christmas Breakfast.            Every year, once our immediate family has exchanged presents, we break our nighttime fast around a big and ample spread of scrambled eggs, biscuits, bacon and sausage, and hashbrown casserole.        Along with the food, we share conversations and predictions of how the rest of the day will unfold as we journey out beyond our home to drop in on extended family. 
    Serving Christmas Breakfast has been a tradition for us from the very first years we have been a family. At this point, I feel I need to back-track a moment because I have left out a singular and unique fellow participant to our observance of this holiday. A decade ago, in 2007, we invited a  guest to share in our meal. We would come to embrace this guest as a member of the Smithville Paffords. The guest I am referring to was Mr. Jerry L. Winfrey, a retired Dekalb County School Teacher.
     Over the next decade, Christmas Breakfast would never be the same as our holiday tradition unfolded and we added another space around our table for our neighbor and beloved curmudgeon, Jerry L. Winfrey. these thoughts came to me today when I learned from Beth that Jerry had died at home in the past few hours.
     Our family continues to grow with new dear ones we welcome at our table year round. But our hearts will be a little sad next holiday. W e will hold a spot and a plate for Mr. Jerry. 

Saturday, December 17, 2011

Inspiration from the Life of..

Pir-o-Murshid Hazrat Inayat Khan

In December of 2005, in the midst of a spiritual crisis, I made a phone call to a private residence on the west side of Knoxville, TN. At the time I was serving two small churches in the United Methodist Tennessee Conference. That phone call benchmarks my introduction to the Sufi Order International and encounter with the teaching and life of Pir-o-Murshid Hazrat Inayat Khan. Since that time Inayat Khan, as teacher and companion, has given me inspiration and a spiritual vessel in which to hold and expand my spiritual practice and religious ritual and healing work with others.

On the fifth of July 1882 Inayat Khan was born into a family of renowned Indian musicians from Baroda, India. Inayat Khan’s father, Rahmet Khan, was also an accomplished musician and dhrupad singer. Many musicians, poets, and philosophers both Muslim and Hindu met in Khan’s house. In this atmosphere Inayat Khan’s childhood and early youth was inspired, universal, and open to all beyond distinctions and differences. Thus from the beginning he was open to all religions. (“The Inner Life”, Foreword PG vii)

The Universal aspect of Inayat Khan’s teaching has been the model of religious dialogue I have sought to practice in my work as a chaplain and spiritual companion. Applying this universality I have worked to meet all people on their own terms. I strive to relay outwardly my respect for their traditions and beliefs seeking all the while to hold sacred space and time. Inayat Khan’s life and teachings have served as a guide and ideal for me in those situations where the people I serve hold spiritual beliefs and religious practices different from my own.

In my studies of Inayat Khan’s life and spiritual path I have discovered a period in Murshid’s life of tremendous challenge and difficulty. Sometime around his fourteenth year Inayat Khan endured the deaths of three significant figures in his young life, a beloved grandfather, his mother, and his spiritual teacher and mentor. As a result of these losses and the emotional strain over a short period- Inayat resigned his post as the court musician and singer for the nazim in the Maharaj of Hyderabad. “More and more clearly he began to feel an inner call that had been expressed by his mentor, Murshid Abu Hashim Madani inspiring him to go to the West and bring a message of Sufism, harmonizing East and West with his music.” (The Inner Life, Foreword PG ix)

These events coupled with this emerging “inner call” inspired Inayat Khan to actively teach and communicate the Sufi principles and practices, which under girded his gift of music. Traveling over three continents he shared his learnings and music in the West. As he traveled he discovered a hunger among his audience for these teachings and practices that revealed themselves in his music and singing. In reflection on this experience, Inayat Khan writes, “To serve God one must sacrifice the dearest thing, and I sacrificed my music, the dearest thing to me. Now if I do anything, it is to tune souls instead of instruments, to harmonize people instead of notes. I played the Vena until my heart turned into the same instrument. Then I offered this instrument to the divine Musician, the only musician existing. Since then I have become his flute, and when he chooses He plays His music.” (The Inner Life, Foreword PG xi)

This early confession of Inayat Khan articulates the complete focus of his life’s work and teaching. A big part of his work in the west included the establishment of “summer schools” and “learning centers” where participants were introduced to his music and the simple teachings and practices encompassing the Message.

Having journeyed through the west including, America, Great Britain, and France spreading the Sufi message of Love, Harmony, and Beauty offering new learnings and healing- Murshid returned to India to recuperate and rest. Murshid died unexpectedly on the fifth of February 1927 at the age of 44.